What I would everyone to know is that everyone has an expected right to be appreciated and loved for who they are. No one is above reproach and no one deserves less in return than what they are ready to give. Sweetheart you should take no crap, because none should be given. A man should be tough to be the wall of protection around his family but the toughness should be the outside of that wall and softness and caring love along with nurturing should be the inside. Expect to be surprised, expect to be enlightened but above all expect to be accepted, because isn't that what makes a relationship.......acceptance?