Meeting men is not difficult. It is what women have preconceived from their teen age life and have evolved the issues.
Trust me I am your doctor (says he). Exactly the same "My butt is too big" statement gets replaced with "I am too old" or "My hair is not straight"gets replaced by "which wig to wear today?".
I have never ever have had any problems meeting any women; younger or older. The other day I was saying the same thing I think on.... is it the chat? .........and a moron who I cannot even remember his name called me narcissistic and arrogant. I am none of those but may be an alpha type. Many times I have met someone in a book shop or even a furniture shop and within 10 minutes (exaggeration.... more like 30 minutes) we have been sitting having coffee. I think he was just jealous but who cares I have been called worse. All I can say to the guy is eat yer heart out man.
Neither do I consider myself attractive, nor do I have any six packs. The only six packs I have are in the fridge (only for visitors I generally don't drink too often). I don't consume pigs pheromones' so how comes I have no issues. I have never had issues meeting women. If a woman here moves to Southern California may be we can have a cup of coffee. As long as she doesn't mind the dog and my boys.
Now I guess this will put the cat amongst the pigeons
Mutley Boy ?