I seek help because of how most been treating me in here and how I use my English in this site, even show them on here what was going on and of course they seen the problem, so I got these links from my resources. As numerous times I post about my culture and someone well let say .. threw the pie back in my face, it appear that no one was taking heed to who I am. Accuse of bringing my friends to do the attacking like if they know my inside and out, like they can control my life as to how I understand and what I am suppose to do when I have been accuse of something that majority don't have a clue, just jump into a pan of fire (figure of speech) and yet I had several attacking me at the same time, it was more than one on one attack, it was several on one attack.

I hope that you all take the time to read this link and maybe you just might learn a bit about my background, or my culture. There was a deaf lady here that I knew as we grew up together and went to school together and because of the way she talk, she was harass by our language from members in this site, so she left. As the saying goes, don't put the cart before the horse.

AND here are the links that will help you, instead of belittling me because of how I speak or think. You can even get in touch with the more qualified staff from the first link.

http://deafalberta.ca/about-us/deaf-services-staff/

http://www.start-american-sign-language.com/hearing-culture-vs-deaf-culture.html

http://healthmad.com/disabilities/the-difference-between-hearing-and-deaf-culture/

http://nad.org/issues/american-sign-language/community-and-culture-faq

http://www.aslaccess.org/videoreview_seewhatimeandiffs.htm

http://limpingchicken.com/2013/05/20/charlie-swinbourne-the-10-incredibly-annoying-habits-of-hearing-people/
https://generalhearing.com/deaf-culture

There are more information and resources on line and I would advise you all to keep on seeking before acting out on my Characters.

Sure I don't like George Carlin or Jim Carry, but some do, but it don't mean that anyone should force me to like them. OR.. I like Bill Crosby and "The Golden Girls" for humor, but it don't mean that I can force you to like what I like... so if no one like my humor then don't be so sarcastic about it... I didn't ask you to be rude about my humor.
Sure, your humor sucks... but I would not have made you an admin on MY site if I thought different of you as a trustworthy, honest and open-minded person... oh, and as a friend. Just keep flapping your wings (and your lips to, I suppose) :lol:

Besides, someone has to point out to me how to spell Cinese correctly :mrgreen:
Daisy you do not need to justify who you are and how you feel. You are honest and trustworthy like DF says and you are definitely my friend. :)
stardaisy wrote: I seek help because of how most been treating me in here and how I use my English in this site, even show them on here what was going on and of course they seen the problem, so I got these links from my resources. As numerous times I post about my culture and someone well let say .. threw the pie back in my face, it appear that no one was taking heed to who I am. Accuse of bringing my friends to do the attacking like if they know my inside and out, like they can control my life as to how I understand and what I am suppose to do when I have been accuse of something that majority don't have a clue, just jump into a pan of fire (figure of speech) and yet I had several attacking me at the same time, it was more than one on one attack, it was several on one attack.

I hope that you all take the time to read this link and maybe you just might learn a bit about my background, or my culture. There was a deaf lady here that I knew as we grew up together and went to school together and because of the way she talk, she was harass by our language from members in this site, so she left. As the saying goes, don't put the cart before the horse.

AND here are the links that will help you, instead of belittling me because of how I speak or think. You can even get in touch with the more qualified staff from the first link.

http://deafalberta.ca/about-us/deaf-services-staff/

http://www.start-american-sign-language.com/hearing-culture-vs-deaf-culture.html

http://healthmad.com/disabilities/the-difference-between-hearing-and-deaf-culture/

http://nad.org/issues/american-sign-language/community-and-culture-faq

http://www.aslaccess.org/videoreview_seewhatimeandiffs.htm

http://limpingchicken.com/2013/05/20/charlie-swinbourne-the-10-incredibly-annoying-habits-of-hearing-people/
https://generalhearing.com/deaf-culture

There are more information and resources on line and I would advise you all to keep on seeking before acting out on my Characters.

Sure I don't like George Carlin or Jim Carry, but some do, but it don't mean that anyone should force me to like them. OR.. I like Bill Crosby and "The Golden Girls" for humor, but it don't mean that I can force you to like what I like... so if no one like my humor then don't be so sarcastic about it... I didn't ask you to be rude about my humor.


Thank you for taking the time to look those up, and share them stardaisy. I've done it so i know it's work. I do feel that i understand your situation, and therefore you, better. You know what "they" say..."With understanding, comes acceptance". YES i read every single word of every link.

Again thank you for posting this...i mean that.

Have a nice evening.

Judy
Ditto to the two above I think I mentioned in my blog about different peoples English abilities.
Daisy and I haven't always agreed on things but would always count her as a friend..
Daisy is just Daisy LOL 
Fishy there should be a Daisy Dictionary especially for us   :D  
For those of you who don't already know, Star is deaf and has never heard the "spoken word" - it is very difficult to "fit in" on a grammatical level especially when you can't hear your own voice inside your head when you speak. I know this because I used to date a deaf girl and that's how I learned about the culture - and she taught me ASL which I have used throughout my life from time to time.

Back in the 60's my "peers" would call someone like Star a "'tard" - short for REtard and we were even shorter in our lack of understanding. Star, don't let the REAL 'tards get to you - as Angel said, there is no need to defend yourself.

Keep your friends here close. We got yer back, girl :D

BTW - I fixed that typo, LOL
-DF
To DF and AngelsonHigh...just an FYI:

I didn't take stardaisys post as "defending" herself. I rather thought she was simply trying to explain her situation, to those of us that aren't aware of it. Like i said i, for one, appreciate her effort. It's nice that she has friends that have her back. We all need those kinds of friends. :)

Yes DF i know you meant AngelsonHigh or jaffa33 when you made the "don't need to defend herself" comment. :wink: It's all good... OK i am...over and out on this thread.
(ahhh so u did, fix that typo haha )
Oh dear, blocked by you once again stardaisy. I'm not sure what you or anybody else think you gain by blocking people for NO REASON, or only reasons known by ya'll. Can't be a deaf person thing, because ur other friend ain't deaf. lol Gotta tell ya, i have never seen this kind of blocking over nothing. Yup you have that right, but like...what are you accomplishing by it? Wow! Personally, i won't try to understand or make excuses for you any longer.
First of all, I want to thank you for taking your time in replying to this board. I was at a point of being very frustrated and was about to go bald by pulling my hairs out. I just didn't know what to do about how my grammar are, like I say, I get that in my everyday life, even my sons correct me, but they don't accuse me of what is wrong, they just point it out because they don't like people making bad jokes on how I talk and helping me with grammar, but once I explain to them that I am me and no one else and they should accept me for whom I am.

Sorry Scorpio, from what I can see at my end, I don't see you looking at my profile, so not sure what you are talking about. Yes when people are being block we can tell that they tried looking at your profile and so are you havn't tried. Oh well, let it be.

I was once told this, let the water roll off like the back of a duck. And fishy, I know you like to tease me from time to time but I will find some remarks to give it back to you. I am block by some that I have no clue why, nor did I know that they were member in here until they view my profile, so what ever turn them off, so be it.... No harm done.
OK stardaisy i am now UNblocked...sheesh. Will you "regulars", oldies, stop with the blocking already???

THANK YOU!!
a block party?
Ya stardaisy...almost any kind of party would be welcome at this time!! :)
DaddyFish wrote: For those of you who don't already know, Star is deaf and has never heard the "spoken word" - it is very difficult to "fit in" on a grammatical level especially when you can't hear your own voice inside your head when you speak. I know this because I used to date a deaf girl and that's how I learned about the culture - and she taught me ASL which I have used throughout my life from time to time.

Back in the 60's my "peers" would call someone like Star a "'tard" - short for REtard and we were even shorter in our lack of understanding. Star, don't let the REAL 'tards get to you - as Angel said, there is no need to defend yourself.

Keep your friends here close. We got yer back, girl :D

BTW - I fixed that typo, LOL
-DF


One can easily know who their friends are... I know you are one as so is Jaffa, and Angel, sure we joke but we don' take it seriously as life is to short. and thank you for being my friend... isn't that the theme song for "Golden girls"? Oh and Mort who is taking some time off the site. Even Jaffa would say that we don't understand one another but that don't mean we can not be friends... as ye all don't throw that mud pie in my face.. now won't I look a sight with all that mud in my face? yes I know you fix that typo...
DaddyFish wrote: For those of you who don't already know, Star is deaf and has never heard the "spoken word" - it is very difficult to "fit in" on a grammatical level especially when you can't hear your own voice inside your head when you speak. I know this because I used to date a deaf girl and that's how I learned about the culture - and she taught me ASL which I have used throughout my life from time to time.

Back in the 60's my "peers" would call someone like Star a "'tard" - short for REtard and we were even shorter in our lack of understanding. Star, don't let the REAL 'tards get to you - as Angel said, there is no need to defend yourself.

Keep your friends here close. We got yer back, girl :D

BTW - I fixed that typo, LOL
-DF


I think stardaisy already explained all that with this thread...Just sayin'...
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