My, my, my...........
Truckdriver: You might have learned from me how to" read "......clearly, I am not here looking for a man.......friends if possible, discussion, fun, funny.....that's it and is so stated on my profile. I don't know Jaffa, but, if I did, from what I've seen, I don't think that would be a black mark against me.
Candle: YOU!? Confounded by my words? Just as you snotted off to Mort, "you wouldn't recognize an insult from me if it jumped up and smacked you square in the forehead".......paraphrased, and, of course, no harm intended... seems you may just have a problem with basic comprehension.... Gosh, if I wished to be derisive, I might call you a wally, or a prat, or tosser......but, that would be just plain puerile, wouldn't it?
Perhaps we could now return to the topic of this thread?
I would caution seeking advice in such a public setting. Not that there aren't many here that could offer up some insight via their own experiences, but...... if I were the woman in question and found myself being discussed in such an open format, I would be angry. I think it better to speak directly to your lady friend, express your concerns and feelings, and make a decision based upon her responses and reactions. I could be totally off the mark and it is simply my opinion.