I know that even in a bigger town or even a city it can sometimes be hard and discouraging to find and meet people, let alone a love interest, but in the small town I live in it is almost impossible. I'm a transplant into my little community of 8,900 some odd people. Most these people grew up with each other, fell in love and stayed here. Married, widowed, divorced, they all have their own intagrated life styles. I've been divorced for four years living here and need to know how to not get tiered and to keep my eyes open for that possible maybe.