I realize LifesaDance that it wasn't meant to be taken out of context that I would not try with relationships, I was merely saying that I know what marriage is about and I am not suggesting negativity in that quote. I have my eyes opened and like to take my time. I certainly do not want to build up something that is not there and have it come tumbling down. I want to go with the flow is all. I am neither overly optimistic or overly pessimistic. I think its safe to say that I am trying to balance the scale. We are all here to give our opinions whether you like it or not. We should agree to disagree. You have your ideas and I have mine. This is what makes this site more interesting than others because you have a place the Forums to voice your opinion as long as we don't hurt anyone in the process. I do not want to be sending out the wrong signals at all! But I also can't worry about how someone interprets my words either!