Where to begin with this post? To many things to even detail. But my thoughts and only my thoughts are if i wanted to explore my sexuality why would I do it here? I understand you state what you are looking for and give a little details about yourself, and sit back and wait till somebody clicks with your take on life. Strike up a friendship and in private explore where that will go. So at what point did we devolve to this type of forum? I am surprised but not shocked at Stairdaisy's response, considering she is the in house, foot out front, acknowledged Christian here at the club. But no matter. I am certain as the fact that God did indeed make little green apples, if i expressed my views on my sexuality and on the many subjects this forum has broached, I would be branded as a racist, bigot, hate monger,(you name it), because I am not in step with the politically correct. I find that odd considering the left is so tolerant, but understand tolerance is a subjective "thing" and changes constantly. So do I post in the forum my requirements or needs? Heads will row if I do that, because the first head will be mine. I do not care if you want to marry your dog, have a foursome, do the nasty with a whip, but I do mind that there is a double standard to what will be allowed from those with that point of view and me. When even those of faith refuse to stand and be counted, the course has been set. Before you flay me with a cat of nine tails understand this. Just because it looks good and feels good, doesn't mean it is good for you. Thank God we all have been given free will. What your requirements are, and sexuality is...........is well yours. Since it is a private issue, I do not believe I should be subjected to a forum post such as this.