Evolving wrote: I am on a couple of dating sites. Many men say they are looking for a honest caring person. Yet, when it comes down to it they are looking for so much more than just that... Appears to be looking for many other things, including a certain look/fitness level/financial level.
I am wondering why not just say that up front? I enjoy it when someone is forthright about what they are looking for. What do you think?
It seems to me that people say what they think others want them to say (complete bull s--t ) in my eyes , what makes it worse is that when things go tits up because both parties are singing from different hymm sheets they wonder why .
Im not going to lie and say that a flabby 50 something year old looks as good as a pert 30yr old but the reality is that we all at some point in life have to except that we are not as fit as we once were.
Most on this site are either divorced or seperated and looking for excitement in one form or another so why do they all kid thereselves into thinking that they are such a good catch when they couldnt make previous relationships work .
At a guess i would say that 50% on here are looking to find a little bit of youth , Excitement , thrills , good sex but i could be wrong and undoubtably will be told so by all the do gooders .
My advise to all is stretch your legs and enjoy yourself , be seductive , be tentative , be alive as its no dress rehearsal .
ENJOY LIFE WHILE YOU STILL CAN best of luck